Cheaters

We have been attending clubs and parties, doing threesomes and full swaps for about 2 years. We love MFMs.

Met a solo male about a year ago on Reddit. During that time we vetted him and got to know him. We ruled out that he wasn't a Fake, and were happy that he showed up as advertised and delivered as advertised. So, not a Flake nor Time Waster.

However, turns out he's likely a Cheater.

Since our meet up (last week) the chatting was obviously reduced. Just some back and forth on how well it went and some talk to repeating the fun in a few months.

Last night after one exchange, about 30 minutes after our last text all of the sudden all Telegram profile/conversation was deleted. Reddit profile deleted etc etc. Gone. Scorched earth, without a trace.

Only thing that makes sense to us, was that somewhere mid conversation either he got busted or a sudden and abrupt stroke of conscience.

The experience was perfect, other than this hiccup. And we feel moving forward we'd like to avoid cheaters altogether.

The questions. What are other people's policies with cheaters (some are fine engaging with them) and how do you vet out Cheaters.

Thanks.