Finally figured out why I hate Delena so much

The way Damon and Elena are basically clutching their pearls at Stefan in s3 is really pissing me off. “We lost him Damon.” Well he is being compelled by an Original and has therefore lost himself too. And have we forgotten that the only reason he’s even in this mess is because of you two? And to add insult to injury, to fall (more) for each other during this time is crazy. I don’t blame Elena as much because she’s like 18 but Damon still pursuing her in s3 when Damon is the sole reason Stefan is going through all that and has become what he is is so repulsive to me. There’s a vague mention of damon being like “oh im the reason you’re in this mess!” but you’re still flirting with elena who you know stefans still in love with? ok sure. I don’t care about the love triangle and wasn’t rooting for any particular brother but even if i did like Delena the fact they basically got together on the back of Stefan’s sacrifice would have ruined them for me (before the weird sire bond came along in s4 and did that anyway).