What’s a moment where you felt the show was gaslighting you?

I’ll go first. The entire Heretics plot line. Like I don’t care if they “siphon” they’re still witches! And didn’t the show say witches couldn’t be vamps? And also Bonnie’s mom being turned. Maybe I misunderstood it and they were being metaphorical rather than literal but it was said time and again that witches are the keepers of balance so they can’t be vamps. Didn’t they? 😭 This is what I mean! Plots that make you questions yourself.