I wish people never started to twist the meaning of being trans to now be this complete mess

comment / "you look like a dude cause you are a dude" as a trans man, I always was a guy but that doesn't automatically make me look like a guy. Also this person will probably start experiencing some distress when the testosterone kicks in fully.

comment / this is just ridiculous, how is the concept of passing transphobic, its something trans people want to accomplish to ease the distress of their GD.

comment / Not as bad but passing is one of the biggest sources of happiness, especially before I transitioned but now early into my transition. I really don't think any actual trans person will be truly happy when they don't pass at all.