My parents are destroying my life

My dad keeps forcing me to do things I don't wanna do - like spending my life's savings to buy a flat he chose. If I don't do them, he thinks I don't love him and respect him. He then says negative things that increase the blood pressure of my mom and make her sick. And she blames me for everything.

What do I do? I'm so scared of having any discussion with him because everytime in the past, he managed to manipulate me with guilt and shame to make me do whatever he wants.

Last weekend, I chose not to visit him because I was spending it with a friend. After that he joined a vridhashraam and started donating money because he was like this money is of no use if my daughter doesn't love me.

He's very emotionally abusive and has also been physically abusive both to me and mom.

Tbh, I actually have lost about 50% of respect and love I had for him over the years. It's my mom I can't see hurting. If he's hurt, he hurts my mom.

Girls, please save me. :(