i need advice or smth..

Ok i have to admit its not realy xeno related but yep there are many amazing ppl here so i feel comfortable posting it here. (also sorry if you spot any mistakes here bc english is not my native language)

In 2024 i came out to my parents as nonbinary (i was already hoarding xenos for long time then but ofc i never came out as xenogender to anyone) winter 2024 i was nonbinary asexual lesromantic. And at the end of 2024 and start of 2025 i realized i feel more comfortable with being a boy and the whole life i felt as a boy basing on my experiences and what i really felt at heart. 2 days ago i came out to one of my 3 closest friends as trans ,bi ,gay and asexual. (they did know i was nonbinary then) First "A" (lets call them A) supported me and even used he/him pronous in message. "N" reacted uhm...well she just wrote ".....". And "I" said she doesnt want to read whole message (it was long) that kinda hurted me...But my parents still think im nonbinary i was telling them that i dont know "which side i am". And still they dont know that im trans..I have a lot of pride pins on my bag and today i wanted to bring them to my room but my father noticed. I was taking off the bi pin and my father asked me if i know what flag is this. I said i know. My mother was here and heard that and asked "So what flag is this?" im really awkward and uncomfortable w/talking to my parents about lgbtq+ community but at least she didnt asked about the xenogender button. So i said its bisexual/biromantic and i was going to my room but then i overheard my father saying in our native language "Kombinacje Alpejskie" ( "Alpenian combinations" translated) that is used as phrase when you think that person is doing complicated things ,is making everything more complex or sophisticated and complicated activities in personal interest. That simply just meant that my parents might see it as nonsense or just dont take it seriously...So yeah im sad that they think of lgbtq community like that and i could imagine them just dying of laught if i told them im xenogender. So im afraid that even if i will say to my parents that im trans they might never take it seriously ,think im "too young" to know this or just being dissapointed because at some point i feel like they hoped i will say im more on "girls" side or that i eventualy will grow out of it. + it seems like they sometimes forget ab my identity i told them i dont feel comfortable with dressing in the girls changing room and they said there is nothing to be uncomfortable about and other girls are the same as me and they dont have any anatomy difference. eh...