Make me like Rhys & Feyre

I fully mean the title. I strongly dislike Feyre and Rhys - mostly individually as characters. They're whatever together, because I don't really like either of them - so I don't care too much / they deserve each other.

I just don't get it. I think both of them are awful and selfish. Yes, I read all of the books. My fav Feyre story was ACOMAF when she had some growth, but then her relationship with Rhys completely stunted and ended that growth. Rhys is the WORST. He treats his IC like shit, he hasn't done anything really for the night court, and he presents as an asshole to the world and has excuses for why that's ok? Man I was pumped when he died in ACOWAR, because I thought FINALLY this is what is going to grow Feyre. Nope, he's back and they can continue they're awful ways. He was even awful in the CC plot. I won't go into details for spoilers of that series.

The IC seems like the mean kids, bully clique of high school.

Absolutely loved CC and TOG. I like SJM writing, so it still kept me engaged throughout the books.

What do you like about them and the IC? I need specifics, details, please.

(Tamlin is no better lol, def not a Tamlin supporter either)

Edit: THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO POSTED, REPLIED, AND SHARED THEIR THOUGHTS/FEELINGS! I mean it, I really loved hearing everyone's opinions and perspectives and how these characters have impacted them. Great discussion! ❤️