Does anyone here have a good marriage but just wants different sex?
It seems like most people on here have a lot of issues in their primary relationship and find an AP who can provide what's missing in the marriage.
This isn't the case with me. My wife and I get along well. We have the same goals and genuinely enjoy our time together. All of my emotional needs are met by her. The sex could be more frequent and more varied but we don't have a dead bedroom or horrible sex by any means.
The one thing I do enjoy in life is variety with sex. I like looking at another woman, flirting, and then finding out what she looks like underneath the clothes. I enjoy smelling different fragrances, feeling someone touch me in different ways, and hearing different sounds.
When I get bored after a few months of monotony, usually on a business trip, I'll hook up with a woman I meet somewhere or even hit up a massage place. Sometimes it makes me appreciate my wife more and other times I tell myself "I wish my wife would do more things like this".