Did your AP ruin your expectations of sex?

I (32F) have only had sex with my husband because we started dating over a decade ago. The sex was always meh but I never knew better.

2 years ago I started an affair with my AP (second person I’ve ever slept with) and it’s been the most mind blowing sex I’ve ever had in my life. I’ve tried so hard to recreate it with my husband but he’s just not into my kinks and generally just far too passive in bed. I now feel incredibly dissatisfied and bored with our sex life (whereas before I didn’t really know better). Did anyone else get ruined by their AP??? How do you accept your current situation??