Am I crazy?

I’m tired of being treated like garbage. Like most, we got married as we were happy together, but then we had kids.

The moment she got pregnant, she was another person, became a giant control freak. Example, one morning she got beyond angry, f/livid because I boiled the water for food, not used the microwave, but the previous week she got equality livid because I used the microwave. !!!

We now have 2 kids, I’m a “useless” father/man.

I changed jobs 3 times over the last decade. She got to keep her job up street, working about 30hrs, while I work 50+. My job have resulted in promotions, I pay for all house expense, her phone, her car insurance, etc.

What do I get…”you don’t take enough vacation time” because she has kept the same job for 18years she has 6 weeks of vacations, I only have 3. If you do the math, I work I full 3.5month in year more then her. All this to be told I’m “useless”. She get to workout 1-2 hours a day at decent time of day, where I can only go to gym at 9pm when I’m exhausted.

BTW, yes I take out the trash. Yes, cook some meal Yes, know how to do laundry, and make the beds. And yes, I am ONLY one who cleans all 3 bathrooms every weekend.

So yes, I looking for a AP.