Ano gagawin nyo? Am I being empathetic or being taken advantage of?

Hi guys kasambahay namin kakauwi lang sa bahay Nila sa probinsya. Magdedebut anak nya so pinauwi ko sya 3 days bago mag birthday with ₱3,000 para maka enjoy silang magpamilya. Habang nagbabakasyon ay humingi ulit nang ₱3,000. Sabi ni hubs, wag na at binigyan na namin nang ₱10,000 Christmas bonus kahit 3 months palang sya sa amin, ayaw daw nyang masanay. Gets ko where they’re both coming from, at the end binigyan ko (with knowledge ni hubby) at sabi ko, sa aming dalawa lang dahil yung mga possible issues nga according to hubs. Well, bumalik na sya and when I asked how her time was, kailangan daw magpa CT-scan anak nya at may sakit daw sa ulo habang umiiyak (I believe it naman pero…?)

ADD CONTEXT: single mom, working for us for 4months, works hard, good person (in my opinion)

What would you adults do? :((