Husband ignoring my message
Problem/Goal: My husband and his friends had a boys night out last night. I knew this before because I read it in their GC. He didn't ask permission to me. He said that I already knew it by reading our convo. I'm 12weeks pregnant and I asked him if he/they could just drop me off in mall where they will be having dinner together and I will pamper myself, check baby items prices etc. He said his friend will pick him up in our house. I asked him if he could ask his friend, coz I knew there is no one will be sitting in the backseat, however he said I should stay home instead. I won't bother their dinner night out as I plan to have massage. I just don't want to be left at home. I got hurt and told him, no need and I already booked a grab/cab to go and left the house.
Context: To my surprise, I saw his friend GF story and confirmed that she joined the boys night out dinner. She said she left them after dinner. I felt really sad about it. Heavy heart :( I chatted my husband that I thought this is supposed be boys night out only. Maybe he didn't know that his friend who picked him up, brought her GF with him. I'm so really hurt.
I met my friend and had a japanese dinner and we bought the OG milktea i'm craving for weeks. My hs friend don't know what I'm going through so she won't be worried about me but she kept on asking how am I.
I told my husband that I won't be home. He didn't ask where I will be going nor didn't even message me where am I, knowing I'm carrying our baby. I'm crying as I typing this. I went home to my hometown at my parents house where I grew up and spend the night having heavy heart. He never seen my chats.
Previous Attempts: Thankfully it's my mother's birthday today. My parents are asking if my husband knew I'm here. I said yes even he didn't ask me where am I. They didn't ask anything but I believe they felt something is going on. I'm just worried with our baby. My crying and emotions that I'm passing to our baby. My tummy hurts a bit and wasn't able to sleep thru the night.