Parehas kaming Virgin ni Seaman

Problem/Goal: May ka date po ako ngayon na seaman, 33M and Im 26F. Kababata ko po siya dati sa province and nahanap niya ako online. We just started talking 2 weeks ago and things progress wherein very comfortable kami sa isat isa to talk about our sexual preferences. He plans to ask me out in person pag ka baba niya in 3 months. However, I'm scared po na baka sa first meet up namin is magawa agad namin yung deed which is same kami ng values na after marriage dapat. Kaso pag sinasabi ko sakanya yun na behave lang kami sa first meet up, baka daw di siya makapag pigil. Natatakot po ako kasi gusto ko rin nman, ang kaso ang konti pa ng foundation ng relationship namin, since we started dating na nasa barko siya. I'm confuse po if should Isuko ko na po ba ang bataan, since si guy po is steictly date to marry po. Or should I not po? And any safety precautions po na ma s-share niyo what to do during first time sex po since parehas po namin first time and isat isa. What to and not expect during first time sex. Mga tips po how to pleasure your maan if ever. How to make him want you mga ganon po. Ty!