Came out as nonbinary recently, Alexander to Alexandria. Looking for clothing options that fit me.

I’m 5’9 1/2, 210 lbs, a lot bigger than most women and femme presenting people and it kills my self esteem being this big seeing other women and femme presenting people so much smaller and shorter. I can’t seem to find any good clothing in women’s style that fits someone my size cause it’s all mostly men’s clothes and men’s clothes reminds me of my old self 🥺. I’m from the Northeast, so there’s plenty of retailers around here, but do any other nonbinary AMAB or trans women have any suggestions for clothes? Like from target, Walmart, mall retailers etc? Thanks in advance 🥰