What should you NOT tell a postpartum mom?? I’ll start…

When I was talking about how difficult of a sleeper I have (he’s been a more difficult than average baby since he was born) and that I was exhausted, someone said to me “you chose to have a baby”.

Maybe I’m being a pansy, but it felt like a really insensitive thing to say to a struggling mom and I felt really lonely. I didn’t choose to have a difficult baby 🤷🏻‍♀️

What have you been told that was not helpful postpartum??

EDIT: I am loving these comments. Thank you for making my day because I am currently on my period, sleep deprived (shocker!!) and feeling very discouraged & lonely about motherhood. This is just what I needed 😂

✨ EDIT NUMBER TWO!! ✨ Looks like common consensus that people are overall insensitive to moms. It’s sad. We are shoved under the rug and dismissed in so many levels. And just because a person is so many weeks/months/years postpartum does NOT MEAN that things are easy now and we don’t need help or encouragement. I wish I could put all of this in a book. I would love to do something with my life to help postpartum moms (no matter how far out they are) but I don’t know where to begin lol.