Is a clean house too much to ask for?

I don't think there's a single clean or organized room in my house right now and it's killing me. Toys are everywhere. Clothes are everywhere. Dishes are piled up (working on that now) and I have a dead vehicle that needs to be boosted. Plus I'm on night shift tonight at work.

We have 2 kids, my wife wants a 3rd. But I keep telling her we're already drowning with 2 and she doesn't seem to give a shit about the state of our house or the state of our lives. If we could keep a well organized and maintained house and handle the drama and activities of these 2 kids then maybe I'd be convinced we can handle a 3rd lol.

I just want 1 clean room.