What do you like about the gender you are attracted to?

Seems like many people like to discuss the things they dont like, and lean on the negative side.

Whats something you really appreciate? For me its when a woman is really excited about what shes talking about, she gets a certain tone in her voice and I just know shes happy to be even able to loredump me about her interests and I really like that. Its fun to be someones safe space like that.