My families racism against music has become more and more apparent and grammys has pushed me to my limit

My parents become so mean and hateful against any type of music that doesn't fit their preconceived conventions and its starting to drive me insane. I personally thought the Grammys tonight was amazing and hella fun. The performances were well put together and very interesting, the actual music was amazing, and I'm not mad with any of the wins besides Beyonce for AOTY (but we'll get back to that). But for my parents...oh no no no. They had comments to say for every performer and winner that didn't fit their "standards." With Chappel Roan having a very gay and flamboyant performance, Charli just kinda of partying a lot harder than they wanted i guess, and Kendrick for no reason other than him being black??!?! It just drives me crazy. They judge every single artist on their appearance or what they think is "artistic" or not. Their skin color, the way they speak, their sexual lives. My dad was actually legitimately angry with Kendrick winning calling him a "dirty black guy that couldn't even talk", without even giving his music a shot or researching about his art. Now I personally didn't want Beyonce to win aoty, only because well...I thought there were better albums this year (I was personally rooting for Charli and Billie). But my family didn't want her to win cause she was black and cause she was trying to be country. They argued Beyonce is NOT a country artist, ignoring the fact artists can change genres if they want. Sure I understand the country thing proved controversial but like GET OVER IT. She won WELL GOOD FOR HER. We don't need to make it about how much you guys hate other people. I've practically resorted to listening to all my music, all the black, gay, and trans artists alone because I would be yelled at for listening to them. And tonight it's just driving me crazy. I simply cant keep nodding ny head everytime my parents want to push this crazy fucking agenda down my throat. And yes, this issue extends beyond music and in the real world. I feel so alienated from my own family cause im the weird one. My sister mostly followed my parents beliefs and much of their opinions on these types of things (and her music taste which is just as closed in as theirs). But I'd like to refrain from including her in the argument since we are so close otherwise. I just feel so detatched and different from them and it makes me feel very alone at times in my opinions. I hope this can be a place of discussion for others with similar experiences or just...advice i guess? I'm sorry this is all over the place but I had to rant to somewhere. I love my parents and they are extremely caring and provide way more than I could ever ask for but this issue just drives me crazy