What is that one trope that makes you immediately roll your eyes and deduct a few stars?

For me, it's enemies to lovers and insta lust. Having the main characters immediately want to crawl all over each other just defeats the whole point of enemies to lovers?? Where's the tension, pining and growing as people first?? Either give me genuine, burning hatred between the two, or call it 'mildly irritated acquaintances to lovers' instead...