Strange perks about being genderfluid

What are some of the strange and unexpected perks about being genderfluid? For me, it's watching Bachelor in Paradise. I find the stupid drama between the men and women hilarious, because it is definitely not how my brain is wired. Despite being AMAB, I do not understand the men and their constant need to show they're dominant over everyone else. I find their behavior laughable. I find it soothing when the women are hanging out and making small talk. However, I do not understand what they find attractive about the men.

Being genderfluid for me means to be free of toxic stereotypes associated with the genitalia I was born with. Watching BOP makes me feel like I'm an anonymous observer spying on an alien species.

What are some of your strange and unexpected perks of being genderfluid?