Bailey is the worst partner ever

Bailey is literally the most terrible wife of all time I can’t believe the show props her up as a role model. Ben wants to pursue becoming a surgeon and she calls him a child and doesn’t support him at all. She goes through her own OCD spout and he does everything to support her and she not only doesn’t thank him, but critiques him the entire time. He made a mistake (the elevator incident) and Bailey says she can’t “trust” him as a husband over a WORK mistake. And then he has a revelation and wants to work a noble job as a firefighter and instead of supporting him she rails on him constantly and shows zero support. Eventually, she has a heart attack and while Ben does everything to take care of her… SHE needs a break. Which Ben, being a good husband, goes along with. He even still comes by to take care of the house but doesn’t even thank him.

Yeah, I’m sure there are moments of kindness and warmth. But there’s just too much bitterness from her. I’m on season 15 and I get the show is striving to be this feminist masterpiece… which is fine. But being a crappy partner isn’t being a strong woman. Meredith, Jo, Altman, Robbins, Callie…. All may have messed up at some pts in relationships, that’s just life. But they’ve all shown how to be strong independent women AND good to their partners. Can’t say the same for Bailey