Wife unappreciative? Or just me?

This morning wife went to work, I work from home and care for 3yo as well. As she left this morning she asked/told me “if” I could since I didn’t have a meeting until 11 to take back all the returns and buy some arts and crafts stuff because she’s making shirts and sweaters for people. I’m running around stores with a grumpy 3yo. I get home swept up a mess baby made with playdoh but left in pile as I had to jump on meeting and present and try and keep a 3yo content. So I got off meeting, made lunch, put baby down for a nap, and then went back up work. Wife got home, did her arts and crafts stuff And took off to drop off shirts and stuff. My older ones got off from school and I had to take them to get haircuts, she was back by this time. After haircuts I went and got dinner and after dinner we went to kids activities. Once we got back late around 9 or so and she starts nagging that she’s the only one that cleans and that she didn’t do anything for one day and the house is a mess. Mind you it’s just a couple dirty dishes, countertops just needed to be cleared off, and the small pile of playdoh. I said to her I didn’t have time I was running all around and then I had to come home and work and just got busy after that, I didn’t bring up baby because she tells me that she’s my kid and that I can’t use watching her as an excuse. I’m just feeling like she doesn’t appreciate anything I do. Am I wrong? Overreacting?

TL;DR overreacting?