Quick one.

Do u know why women will always say men are not intentional or thoughtful?

Can you imagine my wife did ask me what I am planning during valentine (she didn't ask this direct).

Mm nikamshow I have small plan like dinner. She got mad about it and did not want to continue the convo.

For me I am here preoccupied or thinking about how I will pay rent for next month, pay part of my daughter school fees, do household shopping and pay bills like electricity and water and wifi.

She thinks I have alot of money. Yes, i am not broke but the little i have is for saving for the future and emergency. She thinks i am giving her low maintanance yet myself I can barely do a major thing for myself bcz bills are always keeping me tied and cannot fathom an added expense.

She's a kind and friendly wife and we best friends. We do alot of things together, Gossip, work together, travel, cook, eat out, we got all fun here etc but sometimes u guys know those moments when u don't want to hear anything like a bill coming up coz u have alot on your shoulders. I did not want to say valentine is like a bill but if u understsnd my situation I might loosely refer it to a bill.