To what extent to ENM women prefer married men

Some people say that the dating pool for married men is small. But all the women I'm seeing say that my being married gives them a sense of comfort, a kind of pre-vetting. And reassurance that I'm not aiming to climb the escalator with them.

Maybe this is just the anthropic principle at work. Of course all the people I'm seeing like married men: they chose to date a married man. So perhaps there's a larger pool of women who are ambivalent or hostile to the marrieds, whom I never meet because I'm married.

What do you think?