Why do women have it easier

I know people who on the pretext of upsc are passing and enjoying their time in Delhi, don't have any careers yet they will marry someone who's well off and live on his money and the worst thing is she'll flaunt it now than him. Something similar has happened in my college too a girl is getting married to a rich guy right in her 4th year and has no plans of doing anything further.

So many wives who have a lot of househelpers enjoy the husband's wealth while he is the one who is grinding for it.

At times seeing all this i wish if i was a woman