Do people raised by narcissists tend to be attracted to narcissistic partners?

I have noticed that I am more comfortable in abusive settings. There's something about it that feels more "normal" to me. When people are romantically kind or caring, there's something off-putting and uncomfortable about it. I enjoy having freedom, having support, and having a nice person in my life; but it feels like there's something "wrong" and it isn't for me if so. If someone isn't giving me push back or criticism all the time, I just don't feel comfortable.

Is it common to feel this way?