My BF doesn’t give me foreplay before sex

Made a new account for this as I don’t want my friends on my main account to see. My bf (22M) and I (F23) have been together nearly 5 months. He’s my first for everything, but he’s had a sexual past before me. Everything with him is perfect. I’m really happy with him and he’s treated me the best from previous people I was dating. My only complaint with him is the lack of foreplay he gives me before sex. Before we started having sex, he’d touch me down there and give me oral. Now that we’ve been having sex all that foreplay has stopped. I still give him handjobs and BJ’s occasionally, mostly when I’m on my period, but him touching me down there or giving me head is a rare thing now. I’ve already had two separate conversations with him about this. I’ve told him that as much as I love having sex, it does nothing for me. I told him I need you to touch me or give me head in order to make me finish. I said that this whole time we’ve been together you’ve never made me finish, and it’s unfair that you’re the only one getting something out of this. He seemed really understanding and told me he had no idea I wanted to be pleasured those ways, I think he thought sex was enough. After that conversation he did make more of an effort to pleasure me before sex. But now it’s the same shit. The last few times we got intimate we just made out and dry humped a bit and then had sex. No foreplay once again. It’s been really affecting me because I don’t want to have another conversation with him about this. He should want to please me because he WANTS to. I also don’t want to have to ask him to do these things to me because it should be the bare minimum that he gets me off before sex, knowing I can’t finish from penetration alone. I’ve been so emotional about this because I really love him and I know he loves me too. I just don’t know what else I can do/say to him. I really need advice because it’s really affecting me.