wlw dating scene in sg

i feel like the dating scene here is so awful, how do people even date in sg as a wlw😭im currently still a minor so no dating apps + they seem to not be very good anyway and all the girls i meet either move way too fast and have no interest in actually getting to know me as a person and as a friend first or they just ghost / i cant find a real connection with them !! i have no idea where to meet more wlw in sg outside of forums like this also i literally can never tell if someone is flirting with me unless they say it to my face, i just assume theyre being friendly 💔