tara joking about the idea of getting kidnapped

rae is expressing a valid fear that so many women experience, being concerned for their safety, and tara was SO dismissive. her condescending ‘iM nOt pArAnoId,’ implying she’s so chill and laid back, did NOT do what she thought it was gonna do. acting like being cautious about personal safety is an overreaction is ridiculous when it’s a completely VALID way to feel.

telling rae to ‘take a deep breath’ really sent me. and THEN joking about the idea of getting kidnapped but being returned because she’s so loud and insufferable??? not only is that unrealistic as hell, but she’s trivializing a life-threatening situation to boost her ‘quirky loud girl’ persona. like please shes so fucking tone deaf its insane.