A month later...

He is still looking for a job. Despite being "broken up" he was still going to visit last weekend as planned. Except he couldn't because of money.

The worst part is, we can't even talk about how this month has gone because he's only been focusing on the job hunt.

I can't fault him for that. But I just want to know where we stand right now. I can wait for him to get everything together if I knew that's where it was still going.

I'm torn. On the one hand I want to go NC so he can actually miss me. But I don't want to stop talking because we are friends.