My husband says I don’t do enough around the house while being pregnant with a toddler

I have a 2 year old and I’m 28 weeks pregnant. On top of it my toddler is medically complex and has two surgeries in the past two months with lots of doctor visits in between. He claims he knows other women who are able to do it why can’t I? I am able to keep up with the basics- floors, dishes, laundry, grocery shopping, bathrooms but I am behind with organizing the baby clothes. I’m so sad and feel defeated I can’t stop crying, I’m trying my best. He said stop coming up with excuses and do better.

Thank you everyone. My son just had surgery last night I’m so sad and mad he made that comments today I’ve been hysterical it’s just been a rough time