Why is every show so horny

I feel like every show I watch throws in the most random and unnecessary sex scenes or at least make out scenes. I find this super weird even though I’m a 23 year old adult. All of the women in my life over 40 watch the FREAKIEST shows too like what are you guys DOING?? It just feels like showing multiple minutes of moaning and panting and kissing is so weird, but everyone I know watches it and… enjoys it? I don’t ask them if they enjoyed that particular part but I can’t get past it 😕.