I can't wrestle my teammates nearly as intensely as opponents at meets or tournaments

I don't really mind but it's a bit annoying. When I live wrestle with my teammates, I can't take it seriously at all. Almost all my aggression leaves my body. The only good thing that comes from this is that since I'm more relaxed, I test some new moves on them and I use them in matches and meets and stuff. It's just that I don't have the same hatred for them as I do my opponents 😂. It hasn't negatively effected my wrestling (I think). Does anyone else have this problem?