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What did self care look like for you?

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

First Session with an AASAT Therapist - 10/10

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

[HUGE TRIGGER WARNING] Anyone else's SA's fantasize about 'sharing' them?

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

[UPDATE] Might be the end, but I would appreciate some positive words. [CW - No Violence but definite intimidation.]

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

"I can't work on the relationship until I've worked on myself." That's an insane thing to say, right? Help?

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Can you get over the ick?

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

WH Quit his Job on the spot without discussing it with me. [Kind of an update to my previous post.]

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

One of WH's APs (one he was grooming, anyway) was a co-worker who left. She recently returned to the business at a different location. Advice?

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

WH Fully admitted to completely understanding what I need from him and why and then admitted to knowingly denying me those things, all during an MC session. I am going to end up on the news.

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Does anyone else just want the bandaid to be ripped off and hear the most painful shit right now? (Really just a vent post.)

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Working WITH the APs?

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Not taking WH to an event he'd usually go to

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Emotional Burnout

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

Support Groups? S-Anon? Help?

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

When did you feel as though you'd finally learned enough?

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

I can't accept that I'm not to blame and I don't know how to make that happen.

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

Getting through to the next session.

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

Working past 'god' in a 12 step?

Welcome to lovewithasexaddict, a supportive community designed for spouses of sex addicts. Focused on spouses who have experienced physical infidelity in their relationship with their spouse. This is intended to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for individuals navigating the complex emotions and situations arising from their spouses' addiction.

His kink was cheating on me. I think this has undone all our work.

AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.